Find out if they’re cheating by watching their habits
Being in a relationship takes a lot of time and effort, but in the end most people find it to be very worth it. Sadly, some people end up engaging in relationships with extremely toxic people, only finding out that they made a mistake years later, when their partner starts cheating on them. If you think that your partner is being unfaithful, it is very important to find out if they are cheating before putting in more work into your relationship. Once you find out for sure that they are cheating on you, you no longer have to worry about saving your relationship and you can start learning to get over it. To find out if they’re indeed cheating on you, watch them closely and see if their habits have changed. If you find that your lover is no longer acting in their usual fashion, they might have begun sleeping with someone else and string you along for comfort.
Discover a cheater by setting up a trap
To discover a cheater, you need to be ready to see and hear some things that might hurt you. No one wants to admit that their lover is cheating on them but there’s only so much you can sweep under the rug before you need to acknowledge the issue at hand. Although trapping your lover in a certain scenario might make you feel strange, it is sometimes to only way you can catch a cheater in action. Setting up a trap is fairly simple. It can be as easy as making a fake online profile and messaging them, or pretending to go away for the weekend and then surprising them randomly. If you think you are being cheated on but do not want to set up a trap for your partner, you can always take a cheating quiz to confirm your assumptions.
Look through their cell phone
Since most people always have their cell phones on them, it can be a little difficult to get your hand on their device. However, if you live with your lover this can be fairly easy. Simply wait until they are sleeping or in the shower and look through the messages on their cell phone. If they have been regularly calling and texting an unknown number, they might be cheating on you pretty constantly.
Find out if they are using an online dating website
While you are on their cell phone, make sure to check out if they have downloaded any dating applications. Since many singles in Nelson have taken a liking to online dating platforms, your lover might have subscribed in order to cheat on you.
Are you dating a cheating partner? Find out by following them
When I first found out that I was dating a cheating partner, I wanted to know exactly who I was being cheated on with. So I asked my friend to pick me up and waited for my partner to finish work. Instead of coming home from work, they drove to the opposite part of Nelson, parked at a house and was greeted by another woman who had children. At this point I had seen enough, and got my friend to drive me home. Knowing that I had been dating a cheating partner helped me breakup with my partner without any hesitation. If you would rather work on your relation than break it off, you can always read our guide on giving a cheater a second chance.